I gave up the idea of "having it all" when I was 35. I was single, never thought I would get married - let alone have a family one day. My career was going great, I was exercising and maintaining my perfect body, going out with my girlfriends, traveling the world and fixing up my house.

Flash forward to 2010 and I am married (5 years), have a 4 year old son and a successful career. My perfect body has long since left me, I still want to see the world, grow my career, enrich my relationship with my husband, raise my son to be a great man and make my home look and feel like Martha Stewart was just there. I spend a majority of my time "striving 2 B supermom" which means I am trying to find a way to juggle a career, marriage and family and maintain some level of sanity!

Is it really possible to "have it all"? Most days are full of laughs, stress, craziness and some fun, but it's overwhelming to try to fit everything in before bedtime. This is my world - my daily strive to become "supermom". It's a combination of my stress, happiness, shortcuts and planning that help me get through the week. This is for all you gals "striving 2 B supermom" too!

Am I Crazy???

Well, I have been thinking about it for years...thinking about starting my own business that is. I have been searching for the right idea for a long time and I keep coming back to the same basic idea, but this time I saw it in a new light! I have spent the last several months researching my ideas and planning. Today I did it...I made my first investment in my business! I bought a new laptop so I can get the ball rolling on my dream. A part of me is happy, but a part of me is freaking out! What am I thinking? I work full time in corporate America, I have a husband and 3 year old child, I teach aerobics a few times a week, I try to be a "part time" Martha Stewart and we entertain all the time! I keep trying to do it all and now I am trying to do it all plus run a business! I must really be crazy, right?

I keep thinking about the end goal which is more time with my son. I know I work in an industry that has been hit with tons of layoffs and I really anticipate being pushed out of this industry at some point in the future. It's not my dream job by any means, but I am paid very well and have excellent perks/benefits so I just can't leave on my own (all of my friends and I in this industry insist we are bound by the "golden handcuffs"). I feel stuck in a job rut and desperately want more family time, but I am paralyzed by the income and benefits my job offers. I know my employer will most likely drop me with a moment's notice at some point, so I guess I should have plan B ready right?

Well, I hope that my plan B turns into a strong, home based business I can work around my son's schedule while generating a good income. I love working - I was not cut out to be a stay at home mom (I tried it for a year and I missed having a career). I love being in the business world, but I miss my son. I hope I can find the best of both worlds in starting my own business.

I have talked to my husband about this and he has been supportive which is great. The best thing he asked today was "what do I get to do in the business"? I was shocked! I knew he supported me, but I didn't know that he wanted to be a part of my new venture. That's awesome! I don't know what role he will play yet, but it was so nice to hear he is really behind me and willing to help make this a success!

I don't know what the future holds for my success with this business, but I do know I am going to try very hard to make this work. I just hope I can find a way to juggle even more without affecting my family life too much. I know it will be a big challenge, but I am up for it! That is why I continually am Striving 2 B Supermom, right?

Asparagus and Chicken Carbonara

This was good! I made a few variations that I have listed in the recipe. It was full of flavor...even my husband and 3 year old son loved it! The recipe is from Cooking Light - enjoy!

Yield: 5 servings (serving size: about 1 1/4 cups)


Ingredients
8 ounces uncooked spaghetti
2 cups (1-inch) slices asparagus (about 3/4 pound)
1/2 cup egg substitute
1/2 cup evaporated fat-free milk
2 teaspoons olive oil
1/2 cup chopped onion
* 2 cloves garlic - minced (I added this in)
1/4 cup dry vermouth (I used white wine...didn't have vermouth on hand)
2 cups chopped skinless, boneless rotisserie chicken breast meat
1/2 cup (2 ounces) grated fresh Parmesan cheese
3 tablespoons finely chopped fresh flat-leaf parsley
3/4 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
4 bacon slices, cooked and crumbled
Preparation
Cook pasta in boiling water 10 minutes or until al dente; add asparagus during final 2 minutes of cooking. Drain pasta mixture in a colander over a bowl, reserving 1/3 cup cooking liquid. Combine reserved cooking liquid, egg substitute, and milk, stirring with a whisk.

Heat a large nonstick skillet over medium-high heat. Add oil and onion to pan; sauté 2 minutes. Add vermouth; cook 1 minute. Add pasta mixture; stir to combine. Remove from heat; stir in milk mixture, chicken, and cheese. Place pan over medium heat, and cook 4 minutes or until slightly thick, stirring frequently. Remove from heat; stir in parsley, salt, pepper, and bacon. Serve immediately.

Nutritional Information
Calories:416 (23% from fat)
Fat:10.8g (sat 3.7g,mono 4.4g,poly 2g)
Protein:34.7g
Carbohydrate:41.9g
Fiber:3.1g
Cholesterol:60mg
Iron:3.4mg
Sodium:700mg
Calcium:236mg

Crock Pot BBQ Chicken

I think I found this recipe on a chat board on www.thenest.com, but I can't remember for sure! It was easy, tasty and even my 3 year old enjoyed it!

6 chicken breasts (I used boneless)
1 1/2 cups BBQ sauce
1/3 cup brown sugar
2 T Worcestershire sauce

Place chicken breasts on bottom of crock pot (I used frozen...I was in a hurry!). Mix remaining ingredients together. Pour sauce mixture over chicken to cover. Cook on low for 7-8 hours. Either shred chicken and mix with a little of the juice or extra BBQ sauce, or just serve each chicken breast on a plate with side dishes.